So, for those of you who haven’t heard, DAVE GOT INTO UTAH’S PMBA PROGRAM!!!!!!
We opened this letter Sunday:
Your application to the David Eccles School of Business has been reviewed and I am pleased to inform you that a recommendation for your acceptance into the Professional Masters of Business Administration Program beginning in August 2009 has been forwarded to the University’s Office of Graduate Admissions.
It was possibly the best Father’s Day present ever.
I was checking our email and saw that the letter had been posted. Dave was downstairs and I yelled for him to come and come FAST! When he came up and saw what I was talking out about, he opened up the page to log in to. He was fumbling with the password and log in and I was freaking out the whole time, thinking, “OH crap, this could either be really good, or really bad, dear Lord, please make it the former of the two!”
He opened the link up to the letter and I read, “pleased” and starting yelling and screaming and crying and the whole bit. Dave said, “You haven’t even read the whole letter!” I yelled, “THEY DON’T PUT PLEASED ON DENIED APPLICATIONS!!!!!!!” He was pretty hilarious. He turned to me and was just floored. All he could do was look at me with this huge adorable smile from ear to ear. I’m not sure if it was because watching me was so funny or because he was thrilled; probably a lot of both.
With all the deferments on a final decision, we’d really lost hope. With the last deferral, we talked about it, and I told Dave he should really call his coordinator. At this point, we were sure they were either sitting on the fence, or sitting on a “no”. I told him that really, what harm would it do in calling them and really letting them know that we’re anxiously awaiting a final decision, that he really wants to be in this program, and oh yeah, he’s got a 3rd letter of recommendation if they’d like to see it.
That last letter of recommendation was from a radiologist that Dave works with. It was a stellar letter, but the U only allows 2 letters to be attached to an application and not only that, but specifically states that only two will be reviewed. When Dave called up the coordinator that he’s been in contact with throughout the process, he mentioned the letter and the guy asked Dave to forward it to him and he’d attach it to his application. This was about two weeks ago. The last notice that we received stated that a decision would be available July 1.
Much to our surprise and delight, we received the answer we’ve been waiting, hoping, wishing, and praying for. It just makes so much sense to stay where we’re at right now, even though we’d really like to move out of state. My aunt Ronda told me that while my uncle was in law school, she’d always remind herself, “short term pain, for long term gain”. In reality, this will be such a short time, even though it seems like its going to take forever. We’re anticipating 3-5 years, though hopefully its on the shorter end of that estimation!
I am so incredibly proud of Dave. He’s worked his arse off for this. He has surpassed so many people’s expectations and predictions. When we got pregnant with Tori, and then married a few short months later, there were many people, even his own family, that were terrible to him. They said he’d never graduate if he “took a break”. That he’d never get his degree and never end up finishing. A couple idiots even tried to tell him to not marry me, as he’d be ruining his future. Well, to those people- SCREW YOU, cause guess what?! He did it and he’s done it again! I’m so incredibly proud of my husband. He’s one of the best people I know. He’s dedicated- not just to me and the girls, but to everything he puts his heart into. He’s done exceptionally well with his education, and I know he’ll do just as good this time around. Its one of the most thrilling things to me to do things our way, and still succeed and prove people wrong. My excitement and emotion cannot be expressed over a mere blog post about all of this!
To my Davie: You’re the best. We can do anything together and I’m so proud of you. Well, lets face it, proud doesn’t even come close. Beaming, thrilled, ecstatic, overjoyed– and everything in between. You are gonna be great, and I know it! I’m so glad that we’ve chosen to slough off the trash talkers, naysayers, and even the occassional family members. I love that we work together on everything. We have a beautiful family together, we don’t rely on others, and I’d say we’re pretty dang honest about life. I’m so happy that you can be you around me and that I get ALL your laughs, smiles, and even the occassional growls, about life. I’m so proud of us and all the we have accomplished together. I know this is just the beginning of it all! Thanks for always supporting me and the girls. We can’t wait to support you and ride the next adventure all together!